If you or someone you know is struggling with homosexuality here are some things to keep in mind:


Gay people are not freaks.
They're not weird or abnormal just because of their sexual orientation. If you don't understand homosexuality that's OK, but that's no reason to make fun, reject, or discriminate against gays. They are people, too, and they deserve to be treated with dignity and respect regardless of their sexual preference.


People aren't born gay
Many people have been deceived into thinking that there is a so-called gay gene. Research has been done to find a genetic link to homosexuality, but actually it proved just the opposite-that homosexuality is not inborn. Its causes are varied but often include childhood trauma such as sexual or emotional abuse, early exposure to pornography, unmet emotional needs, and a breakdown in the relationship with the same sex parent.


God loves the homosexual struggler.
Though the Bible clearly condemns homosexual behavior (Lev. 18:22, Lev. 20:13, Rom. 1:26-27), God does not reject the homosexual. He loves gays just as much as He loves straight people. God sees us all alike, as sinners in need of a savior. The gospel is for everyone, including the homosexual.


There is hope for change.
Gay people don't have to stay that way. A homosexual orientation is not a life-sentence. With God's help and the loving support of others, many people have left the homosexual lifestyle. Unfortunately , there are no quick fixes or easy answers for gays who wish to change. That's why its helpful to talk to someone who's been there. For help, contact your local Exodus ministry.